How to Cope with Stress while Caring for a Child with Autism

The stress can come in many different forms. Mentally, you can fall to become depressed or have anxiety. Physically, you can be more prone to becoming sick with illnesses such as; cardiovascular, immune system, and gastrointestinal issues. Socially, most people are not educated about Autism which can cause shame to parents from the public eye. While your child's behavior is not meeting the public's expectation, the parents and caregivers stress on how they are going to prevent the meltdowns while being in public. The other stressors that can effect a parent and caregiver is financial well-being; while you work a regular 40 hour a week job. A parent with a child with autism most likely cannot due to the care their child needs, and if they are not getting assistance from the state they could always be worried about their financials. As a caregiver, you may have additional expenses like; medical bills, childcare, etc.

While a meltdown is not easy, the best path for both yourself and the child is to find the best path that works for you both to prevent one from happening. Again, not all meltdowns are preventable; but knowing your child's stressors will help eliminate issues for yourself as well.
There are different types of strategies you can do to cope with stress while caring for a child with Autism. Whether parents or a caregiver, a meltdown is not easy to handle while trying to calm your child down. Coming from a professional point of view, the easiest way to cope as a parent is trying to find down time for yourself. Making simple changes to some of these stressors also is a great way to start. Try a nightly routine allowing them to go to bed earlier, or doing some sort of exercise with them.

If you have a partner or professional make sure you all are on the same page so they can help with these simple changes. Know that there are other forms of help if you do not have a partner or professional help. I would recommend looking into Residential Options in your area, they are usually a volunteer opportunity with reliable and trained helpers who can help with giving you some free time to focus on the present and not the future.

Just remember, asking for help from your friends, family, coworkers, and professionals around you is not a crime. Caring for a child just alone takes a "village" to raise, but raising a child with Autism takes a community; there are people out there willing to help, you just have to ask!


  • Has any parent out there who have ASD children been bitten, kicked, Sworn and got called names to their parents n child has nearly broken things in the house through Temper,? I would like to know this?Is it every ASD child or is it just me As I do NOT like this Happenening sick to death of it.

    Paula varley
  • My son has been stimming like a trumpet past 2months will he continue doing this as it’s driving us mad.I’ve looked up on internet said could be through bordham,Stress,or excitment.He doesn’t have many friends at home just watches mobile n washing machines which end up with him Swearing at me as he likes it constant spinning when time is up n doesn’t wait for ringing tone.

    Paula varley
  • I have my 2 year old lile this im on my own ots so hard and she is getting Worse

    Lorraine Butterfield
  • I love this blog is so true my grandson is a handful and I’m by my self Also but I get help from the community I’m so bless God is wonderful thank you for sharing this article

  • I have a grandson with autism. I babysit him and take him to and from Logan Center each day. I want to be able to connect with him. We go to the park and he loves to swing and run. Besides that what else can I do to connect with him

    Lonna Johnson

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